After Jessica’s Christmas list – which was surprisingly good on getting me cheese and champagne, thank you to my lovely friends – I thought we ought to have Jessica’s New Year Resolutions. So here we go…..
1. I will lose weight. First and foremost, this is my number one goal. Because when I’m thinner, I get more play. Sad but true.
2. Related to the above, I will play more in 2010. Although I have had some fabulous plays this year, there has been a distinct shortage of good male doms about, and even smaller number of whom actually wants to play with me on an individual basis. So I need to reassess my pulling strategy!
3. I will try to be nicer. I say this every year and every year I am astonished by what a bitch I can be when bad feelings like rage or jealously take over. To try and harness these emotions into a more positive response is a key life goal.
4. I will try not to get easily irritated by small things. I have a reputation for speaking my mind and being honest about what I think. But whilst being blunt is good, being short-tempered is not.
5. I will stop measuring my self-worth by what other people think of me and do with me. It’s what I think is important, not what anybody else does.
6. I will remember birthdays.
7. I will have at least five orgasms a week, minimum.
8. I will try to do something worthwhile for myself that is non-kink related. I’m not arrogant enough to bang on about wanting to save the world or always assume I am amazing at everything, but I’d like to do something for me that will make me feel good about myself.
9. I will try to provide more wise counsel. I don’t think I always get it right when my friends bring their problems to me.
10. I will appreciate things more. It’s the small things that matter!
1. I’m more than happy to help in any way I can – if I can. If not, I’ll just cheer you by the pathside. But i might start instigating “Wii Fit nights” with you…
3. If you get any nicer, I will have to kill you. Fact.
6. You’re the person I envy most in terms of being organised on this sort of stuff. So this one leaves me baffled…
8. I’m looking forward to the novel, frankly…
9. It’s not about “getting it right”, surely, it’s about saying it how you see it. And on the rare occasion that might not be what your friends want to hear, or what they go with in the end, every bit of advice is helpful – always. Even if it just makes the recipient think, hang on, no, that’s not for me. I love your advice, and i hope you don’t change giving it from your heart.
Good luck with your plans for 2010, lovely.
“After Jessica’s Christmas list – which was surprisingly good on getting me cheese and champagne,”
AND SNOW. You nipple…
1. I’m on for number one two, I want to fit into my Abercrombie and Fitch skinnies without having had three days of flu. However, I shall also not become a fruit loop and live off fags and diet coke.
3. In the same token, you’re the only person who takes the piss out of me therefore meaning that I stop taking myself so bloody seriously, and you tell things how they are, those are very rare qualities.
6. You remembered international Rebecca day, and I bet you know how old I am, unlike my mother who said she “couldn’t belive I’m about to be 20.” That’d be cos I’m not…!
7. I’ll help!
8. I’m with Nic, novel please. Please!!
9. Um… I really object to this one, you know I think of you as my fairy kinkmother, there’s not been one single emotional trauma since about September that you haven’t given me amazing advice about, as well as often scooping me up off the floor and looking after me (two university rejections, who was there? Jessica and HWMBO, and that’s just one for instance.)
10. Small things that come in Tiffany blue boxes?!
2010 is going to be *awesome*
xxxx
Hoping 2010 brings you all you wish for and much happiness. You are yourself and that’s why we all love you.
1. Maybe we should all give up booze for January? Majorly calorific and we could all get off on the self-imposed pain in a bizarre way…
2. You deserve lots of lovely play and so hopefully this will happen
3/4. You are a lovely person and everyone is human and entitled to be irritable from time to time – please don’t become a non-human as that would scare me!
5. Everyone I know that knows you thinks you’re awesome so remember that – we can’t all be wrong
6. You are the most organised person ever on this (and everything else!)
7. Hallelujah to that! And it burns calories so contributes to 1!
8. I think you’d enjoy that but think it’s unfair to say wanting to save the world is arrogant – we can all make a small difference and doing that makes me personally happy – not arrogant.
9. You give fab advice and are one of the most long-suffering and helpful
listeners I know – thank you for all the moral support you’ve given this year
10. Hurrah for appreciating small things – pretty knickers, nice wine and fun
Here’s hoping you have the FABULOUS 2010 you deserve
Jessics, I made a new years resoluton about thirty years ago, never to make another new years resolution and always to do the best that I can.;)
I won’t comment on your resolutions, I don’t know you as well as your other commenters,
But I will wish you success in all your endevours in 2010.
Warm hugs,
Paul