Isn’t it annoying when you suddenly get lots of offers but they’re not exactly what you are looking for?
I’ve been over-run lately with people who are all asking me to do things which aren’t quite what I want. But I’m rubbish at saying no……
The first one is married men. Now, I have nothing against married men per say – I am after all a married woman! But what gets my goat is the chaps who are cheating on their wives and assume that because I am married as well, I’m happy to facilitate that. For the record, I’m not. He Who Must Be Obeyed and I are incredibly honest with each other and are happy to have an open relationship. So when I get emails asking for ‘discretion’, ‘daytime sessions’ or refusing to give me a mobile number, I get annoyed, especially when said chap then gets shirty when I say I don’t like it. I’m not going to make a morality judgement on them – if they want to cheat it’s their business – but I don’t really want to be involved. If the married guy is married to someone who isn’t into it and has their blessing to play elsewhere, then bring it on!
The second one is girls. I am probably going to offend several people by saying this and will get several angsty emails saying ‘I thought you liked me!’ the answer to that is that I *do*. A lot! But I should explain. I love taking the dominant role with girls. I love to make someone I like squirm with embarrassment and wail with pain before bringing them to delightful shuddering orgasms. But the Dom part of Jessica only takes up about 20% of her. And at the moment, many of the offers I am getting are from sub girls who would like me to be evil to them, sometimes in conjunction with HWMBO. So I’m currently playing a lot on the top side. Which is kind of hard work and involves loads more brainpower than lying back and thinking of England. And sometimes it makes it hard for me to swap back to being submissive. So the purely selfish part of me gets a bit tired*. But then some female sweetheart floats into view and I just think….hmmmmmm…..
The third set is loads of dom guys I’ve met lately who have been sexy, nice, clever and funny. But they haven’t liked what I like. And therein is a problem. Because as I’ve got older and more fussy, I am less likely to do something totally off the wall (for me) to please the playmate, especially a new one.
Anyway. Have just read through this and realised that at least I am getting offers. So am going to stop moaning and be grateful for what I have!
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*Disclaimer so none of my female playmates feels the urge to email me – if I have asked you to play with me, chased you, or made lewd suggestions, I want to play! So do not take the above to mean that I don’t and I’m only doing it to please you. Any female playmate who asks me if I *really* want to play with them or am I just doing it to mkae them happy will be caned. Instantly. And I’ll get off on it, in a very perverse way.
Jessica, I’ve never liked to play with someone behind their partners’ back,
it’s happened once, when I discovered it, it made me very uncomfortable and was difficult to untangle.
This isn’t because I’m virtuous, just lazy.
Warm hugs,
Paul.
I hear you on the married guys thing. Secrets secrets are no fun and all that. I hate getting dragged into somebody else’s sneakiness. Talk about taking up brainpower–I don’t have time to catalog and validate someone’s lies for them. And to be shallow about it, it kills the mood for me.
I hope you get some Goldilocks “Just Right” offers soon!
I’m also uneasy with the secrecy of playing with married guys behind their wives’ backs. On the other hand, I’m not without sympathy for the ones who have tried very hard to make their wives understand this need, with no success. I’m not sure I’d understand it myself if I didn’t share it, though I think I would have tried, and it doesn’t take too much imagination to be sympathetic to the bind in which they find themselves.
OK, I’m a softie…
At least you’re in demand sweetie – and have some fun sub things lined up I believe
Maybe it’s just that you’re so desirable that you can afford to be fussy.